Men’s health: Is it ok to compare & jerk-off with your brother?

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So I’m 16 & my brother is 17. We have seperate rooms & computers so this subject never came up. If I ask him I need to compare my one with his & may be wanna jerk-off together, is it something not good to do with your own brother? Rather than, doing it with your friends who are strangers I wonder what is wrong in doing it with your brother? I’d like to get answers from guys who have brothers & had similar experiences.

My brother is 9 yrs older than me, so he might’ve felt like a perv if we’d done it, but from my perspective of looking up to him I’d have loved it if he’d told me what he knew about sex and taught me to masturbate - like when I was 11 or 12 and he was 21. Maybe I wouldn’t have been so miserable thinking I was sinning and couldn’t quit.

My bro in law told me he learned to masturbate from seeing his slightly older brother and his brother’s friend masturbating together - right out in the open in their shared room. When my bro in law started, that meant bros masturbating in the same room pretty much daily for 5+ yrs.
U gotta remember that boys have been masturbating since Creation, but large houses and small families are a relatively recent development. Bathrooms had to be shared w the whole family or not too long bfor that were smelly outhouses.

If u changed clothes, had an erection, or masturbated…then ur bro was prob there to see it.

Even today, a fair number of guys learned from a brother, or maybe cousins sharing a summer room at grandma’s etc. It had to be MUCH more common in the past.
So I don’t think there’s anything unnatural about doing it w a brother. You might say, ‘can I ask u a really personal question?’ (everybody says yes to that). Ask how often he does it, when he started, how long he is. If he seems ok w answering ur questions, then u can say, ‘u know I’m not homo, but I’ve always wondered how I measure up. Ur my big bro and u know I look up to u. I can’t think of anybody I’m more comfortable with. I mean…um…is there anyway we could, u know, like, jack off together?’

Whenever any one of a half dozen friends would spend the night w/ me, we’d jack each other off. I never considered it sex, cause there was no oral or anal (which seems repulsive to me). I just considered it as two friends doing together what we normally did on our own. For that reason and because we didnt use porn, i dont think its sinful. We all grew up straight.
Seeing my friends, though, helped me feel normal and my own sexual development and response. Besides feeling really good -haha- it satisfied some of my curiosity.

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16 Responses to “Men’s health: Is it ok to compare & jerk-off with your brother?”

  1. Charlie Says:

    well this is a diff topic, well i would never do this with my brother, but if you guys are really close maybe, but he also might find this weird and gay
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  2. WSID? Says:

    ok dude thats kinda weird but whatever works i guess. but that sounds pretty homo man.
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  3. black sabbath Says:

    Dude….Really? I hope your joking.
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  5. Halie Says:

    yes it is okayy for you to do that with your brother it helps create a bond between you to lots of normal males do this. as long as your not trying to touch each other i say go for it..

    my brothers have done it before they say its a good way to learn tips and new tricks.. just make sure you ask him in a non sexual way….
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  6. Joe G Says:

    Brothers doing it together is so hot. I dont have brothers but i have jerked off with brothers and it was hot and lead to a full on threesome. although the brothers only made out and jacked each other
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  7. †Dragontattoo† Says:

    It works for porn movies, but in real life it’s just wrong on every level imaginable….
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  8. Alice May Says:

    It’s not ok.

    Are you looking for an excuse?

    Find a g/f. That will solve your problems. LOL
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  9. Just M Says:

    Hey its ok jeez its just your brother everyone needs to lighten up
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  10. Steve Says:

    I guess as long as you guys are both willing participants there shouldn’t be a problem. Just don’t try to force it if he is disinterested. Just make sure you guys don’t get caught or you will be in one very awkward situation.
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  11. klowag Says:

    I see nothing wrong with it, but no one can tell you if it’s ok or not, that’s up to you. But remember, this involves two people, not just you. If he says no, understand his reasons. I myself would like to ask my brother but never have the courage to. It’s fine that you’re curious and it’s not really harming anyone if you do in fact compare and jerk-off together.
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  12. Oscar Perez Says:

    thats hot
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  13. thewolf595 Says:

    well ? why not ? " if it feels good do it " just have good lube handy, and a slow stroke method. i dont personally see an issue with this. come and be happy the both of you. ..
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  14. Jasper Says:

    Brothers who are close do it all the time, brothers that aren’t don’t. If you regularly see your brother nude and he sees you, you pee together in public or shower together at locker rooms, you may be able to broach the subject. But if you both act shy and don’t ever see each others’ gear, then not likely he’ll be interested. Doesn’t hurt to ask though, the older bro might be impressed if you ask him some questions about sex, and probably be glad to answer- then you can go from there.
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  15. jsr Says:

    My brother is 9 yrs older than me, so he might’ve felt like a perv if we’d done it, but from my perspective of looking up to him I’d have loved it if he’d told me what he knew about sex and taught me to masturbate - like when I was 11 or 12 and he was 21. Maybe I wouldn’t have been so miserable thinking I was sinning and couldn’t quit.

    My bro in law told me he learned to masturbate from seeing his slightly older brother and his brother’s friend masturbating together - right out in the open in their shared room. When my bro in law started, that meant bros masturbating in the same room pretty much daily for 5+ yrs.
    U gotta remember that boys have been masturbating since Creation, but large houses and small families are a relatively recent development. Bathrooms had to be shared w the whole family or not too long bfor that were smelly outhouses.

    If u changed clothes, had an erection, or masturbated…then ur bro was prob there to see it.

    Even today, a fair number of guys learned from a brother, or maybe cousins sharing a summer room at grandma’s etc. It had to be MUCH more common in the past.
    So I don’t think there’s anything unnatural about doing it w a brother. You might say, ‘can I ask u a really personal question?’ (everybody says yes to that). Ask how often he does it, when he started, how long he is. If he seems ok w answering ur questions, then u can say, ‘u know I’m not homo, but I’ve always wondered how I measure up. Ur my big bro and u know I look up to u. I can’t think of anybody I’m more comfortable with. I mean…um…is there anyway we could, u know, like, jack off together?’

    Whenever any one of a half dozen friends would spend the night w/ me, we’d jack each other off. I never considered it sex, cause there was no oral or anal (which seems repulsive to me). I just considered it as two friends doing together what we normally did on our own. For that reason and because we didnt use porn, i dont think its sinful. We all grew up straight.
    Seeing my friends, though, helped me feel normal and my own sexual development and response. Besides feeling really good -haha- it satisfied some of my curiosity.
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  16. Tightywhiteytrainer Says:

    Personally I don’t see the issue with it. Who better to compare your manhood size with than your bro you know? I didn’t actually have a brother growing up, but my best friend did and growing up we all measured our penises with a ruler, and had watched a porn together in the same room. No one touched each other, we just got ourselves off watching the movie. Most people are going to say it isn’t normal or ok to do, but that is only true for their situation. If both you and your brother are comfortable with it, then nothing more needs to be said you know?
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